One thing I forgot to mention was when the Respiratory Therapist (he is the one guy who's name I didn't get! doh!) was working on Tanner, taking his breathing tube and feeding tube out and adjusting his oxygen, he was humming Phantom of the Opera songs to him.
He would hum "Think of Me" and "All I Ask of You" to him and it made my heart just melt.
I don't ever want to forget that, and I can still remember his soothing humming voice.